A Thanksgiving to Remember: Maahir's Proposal to Serena

A Thanksgiving to Remember: Maahir's Proposal to Serena Thanksgiving this year brought a whirlwind of emotions for our family. On a crisp and beautiful day in Albuquerque, surrounded by Serena’s family, Maahir proposed to the love of his life. It was a moment of pure joy and heartfelt love—a celebration of a new beginning. But like so many joyful occasions in our lives now, it was interwoven with the bittersweet ache of missing Sana. Earlier this year, in April, Maahir had shared his plans to propose with Sana during a weekend visit home. It was a rare, intimate moment between siblings, and one that I know Sana cherished deeply. She was thrilled for him—her baby brother—and eager to see him happy and settled. I remember Maahir’s excitement as he shared the details with her, and her smile as she listened. Sana had always been so generous with her love and support, and her happiness for Maahir radiated through that conversation. After Maahir shared his plans, I discussed with Sana that he might use one of my rings to propose. It felt fitting, like a small way to contribute to this milestone in his life. Sana, however, had her quirks. While she was incredibly large-hearted and giving in many ways, she had a playful possessiveness about my jewelry. “First dibs,” she would say with a laugh, making her feelings known. Of all my rings, my wedding ring was her absolute favorite. She admired it often, always commenting on its timeless design. It was this ring that Maahir ultimately chose to resize and use for the proposal—a choice that felt deeply symbolic and meaningful. The moment Serena said "yes" was a joyful one for everyone present, and the pictures and videos captured their love perfectly. But as I looked at those images, I couldn’t help but feel a pang of sadness. I wished, with all my heart, that Sana could have been there to celebrate with us. She would have loved every bit of this occasion, from the thoughtful planning to the sheer joy of the moment. Still, I take comfort in believing that Sana is watching over us. I know she would be so happy to see her baby brother settled with someone as wonderful as Serena. Sana had always loved Serena’s kind and warm nature, and I know she would have given her wholehearted blessing to this union. As a family, we are filled with immense joy for Maahir and Serena, but there’s an undercurrent of sadness that will always accompany moments like these. They remind us of the gap Sana’s absence has left in our lives. Yet, in many ways, her spirit continues to guide us and be a part of our journey. I like to think that the ring Maahir proposed with carries not just my blessings, but also Sana’s—an enduring reminder of her love, her generosity, and her place in our hearts. And as we move forward, celebrating new beginnings and milestones, I know she’ll always be with us, cheering us on from a place of eternal peace and love.