Sana's Legacy: The Power of Forgiveness and Holding Back

One of Sana's greatest strengths was her incredible ability to forgive. Even when deeply agitated, she never lashed out or resorted to hurtful words. She could vent her frustrations, but always with grace. No matter how upset she was, she never used derogatory terms for anyone. This self-control and compassion are the qualities I hold dear and want to remember her for. In a world that often thrives on anger and quick reactions, Sana left behind a legacy of forgiveness, one that we should all strive to incorporate into our lives. As a parent, I’ve always been mindful of raising my children with kindness and respect at the core of their character. But I’ve also always told them that respect is truly tested when you’re angry or upset. It's in those moments of heightened emotion when the real challenge comes: to keep your words measured, even when it’s tempting to say things you don’t mean. I've often reminded them, "Once words are uttered, you can never take them back." Words have the power to hurt deeply, and their impact can linger long after the moment has passed. Sana understood this lesson well. She made it a part of who she was. Her non-confrontational personality was shaped by her ability to hold back, to think before speaking, and to respond with empathy rather than anger. This quality didn’t just make her kind; it made her truly compassionate, someone who always sought to understand before reacting. As I navigate the pain and fragility of grief, I find myself reflecting on Sana’s ability to hold back. Grief is a time when emotions are raw, and it's easy to lash out, say things you don’t mean, or let anger take over. But now more than ever, it’s important to remember Sana’s example. There is so much power in walking away, in taking a breath before speaking, and in choosing not to let pain dictate our words or actions. Sana’s strength—her forgiveness, her gentleness—is a legacy I hold close. In moments of deep sorrow, when it feels like everything is fragile, it’s these qualities that can help guide us toward healing. Letting go of anger, holding back harsh words, and choosing kindness even in the hardest moments—this is how Sana lived, and it’s how I want to live in her honor.