Why me? A question of strength and resilience

"Why me?" is a question that comes to mind for anyone who faces a challenge in life. It's a natural response to adversity, a way of grappling with the unfairness of suffering. But do we ask the same question when something good happens? It's a thought that often gets overlooked in moments of joy. The most amazing part about Sana was that she never asked us that question—ever. Throughout her illness and her mental health journey, Sana never once questioned, "Why me?" As her parents, we often found ourselves wrestling with that question on her behalf, struggling to understand why someone so kind and full of life had to endure so much. But Sana herself never voiced it. Sana was truly a resilient human being. She faced her challenges with a grace and acceptance that left us in awe. While we were caught in the turmoil of trying to find reasons and make sense of her suffering, Sana simply accepted the fate dealt to her. Her strength was in her ability to live in the moment, to confront each day with courage and a quiet determination. Her resilience wasn't just about enduring the physical pain or the emotional strain; it was about maintaining her spirit in the face of overwhelming odds. Sana's journey was filled with moments that would have made anyone else question their path. Yet, she moved through them with a steadfast resolve, never allowing her circumstances to define her. Reflecting on Sana's journey, I realize that her acceptance wasn't about giving up or resigning herself to her fate. It was about finding peace within herself, about recognizing that some things are beyond our control. Her ability to embrace her life, with all its highs and lows, was a testament to her incredible spirit. "Why me?" is a question that may never have a satisfying answer. But through Sana, we learned that the real question isn't why something happens to us, but how we respond to it. Her life was a powerful reminder that resilience and goodness can carry us through even the darkest times. In the end, Sana's legacy is one of strength and acceptance. She faced her challenges head-on, never once asking for an explanation or seeking to place blame. Her journey taught us to find peace in the midst of chaos, to accept what we cannot change, and to move forward with grace and courage.