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Wednesday, July 24, 2024

The power of friendships- a shoutout to all Sana’s friends

Sana was an introvert. Growing up, she was reserved and quiet, often with her nose buried in books as she tucked herself away in the corner of her room. Her world was filled with stories and characters that only she knew. Maahir, on the other hand, was the opposite. With his friendly, extroverted personality, he made friends wherever he went. As a mom, I always marveled at how my two children could be so different. Yet, as life unfolded, I witnessed something profound. When Sana was unwell, and even after her passing, the depth and strength of her friendships became strikingly evident. Friends flew in from all corners of the world to be by her side. These friends, much like Sana, were good-hearted, non-judgmental souls who found joy in the simplest things and experiences. One might expect an introverted person to have few connections, but Sana's friends showed me that quality far outweighs quantity. They were there for her in ways that words can hardly describe. They held her hand through the hardest moments, shared laughter in times of reprieve, and offered unwavering support when it was needed most. I recall the hospital room filled with quiet conversations, shared memories, and moments of collective silence that spoke volumes. Sana’s friends didn’t need to speak to express their love and support—they just knew. They understood her in a way that went beyond words, with a connection that was deep-rooted and resilient. Sana's friends taught me a valuable lesson about the nature of relationships. It's not about having a large circle but about having a few true friends who stand by you through thick and thin. These friendships are based on mutual respect, understanding, and a genuine appreciation for one another. In the days after Sana’s passing, her friends continued to be a source of strength. They shared stories, cried together, and celebrated her life in ways that honored her spirit. They helped me see that Sana's introverted nature did not mean she was alone; rather, she was surrounded by a select group of individuals who loved her deeply and truly. Reflecting on this, I realize that having a few good friends is all that one needs. Sana’s life, though quieter and less outwardly social than Maahir’s, was filled with meaningful connections that provided her—and us—with immense comfort and support. These friendships were her treasure, and in seeing the way her friends loved her, I am reminded of the incredible impact that a few genuine relationships can have on our lives.

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