Embracing Faith Through Friendship: A Journey of Healing

Yesterday, we had a heartfelt visit from dear friends Huma and Osman, who came all the way from Toronto. I've known them for over 20 years, dating back to our days in Singapore. Our kids grew up together, sharing countless happy and sad moments, weaving a tapestry of memories that bind our families tightly. Huma is more than a friend; she is a pillar of support and a passionate advocate for mental health. Her spiritual inclination has always been a source of inspiration for me. During our visit, she offered a calming explanation that resonated deeply with me. According to our religious beliefs, this life on Earth is a test, a fleeting moment in the grand scheme of eternity. What awaits us is a beautiful, eternal life, one that Sana is now enjoying. Understanding and accepting this concept is not easy. The grief and pain of losing Sana are overwhelming, and the notion of her being in a better place often feels abstract and distant. But Huma's serene faith and her unwavering belief in the afterlife provide a glimmer of hope. Her words remind me that, while this life is temporary, the love and connections we share are everlasting. I am trying to grasp and accept this perspective, striving to find comfort in the belief that Sana is at peace, enjoying a beautiful life beyond our earthly existence. It’s a challenging journey, but I know that if I continue to nurture my faith, much like Huma does, I will eventually reach a mental state of surrendering and acceptance. Faith, after all, is not about having all the answers. It’s about finding peace in the midst of uncertainty and trusting in a higher power. I feel a little more equipped to navigate this difficult path. Their support is a reminder that I am not alone, and that together, we can find solace and strength in our shared beliefs.