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It's important to understand the complex and often misunderstood issue of self-harm. While it might seem irrational to someone who hasn't experienced it, self-harm can be a way for individuals to cope with overwhelming emotions or situations. Here are some key reasons why people might engage in self-harm:>For some, self-harm is a method of expressing deep emotional pain. When words fail, physical pain can seem like a more tangible way to express feelings that are too intense or confusing to articulate. It's a cry for help, a way of saying, "I'm hurting," when they feel that no one is listening or understanding their distress.Others may use self-harm as a way to regain a sense of control. When life feels chaotic or overwhelming, causing physical harm to oneself can create a sense of order or predictability. It's a way of taking control over one aspect of their life when everything else feels out of control.Self-harm can also serve as a distraction. The physical pain can momentarily take their mind off emotional or psychological pain. It's a way to interrupt a cycle of negative thoughts or to feel something other than numbness.For some individuals, self-harm is a way to punish themselves. They might struggle with feelings of guilt or self-loathing and see self-harm as a way to atone for perceived wrongdoings. It's a physical manifestation of the emotional pain they feel they deserve.

Lastly, it's important to recognize that self-harm can become a coping mechanism or habit. Just like any behavior that provides temporary relief, it can become ingrained and difficult to stop without help.