Honoring Sana’s Spirit: A Gift from Hunter College"

Yesterday, we took Mia to the dog park to celebrate her 11th birthday. It was a bittersweet day, filled with memories and emotions. While we marked Mia’s special day, it also weighed on our hearts that it was exactly 11 months since Sana’s passing. Two milestones intertwined — one a celebration of life, the other a reminder of loss. After our trip to the dog park, while we were sitting in the car, Serena handed us a gift that touched us beyond words — a beautiful plaque from Hunter College, where Sana had been pursuing her Master's in Education. The plaque honored Sana for being an exceptional student and a passionate teacher. Sana worked tirelessly in her studies, always striving for excellence. She poured her heart into every assignment and every class, often earning straight As. But more than just her academic achievements, Sana had a natural gift for teaching. She was deeply committed to her students, always looking for ways to inspire and support them. To see her recognized by her college, even after her passing, was profoundly moving. Amidst our grief, receiving something so special felt like a small light breaking through a heavy cloud. This tribute didn’t happen overnight. Shortly after Sana’s passing, my cousin’s daughter had suggested reaching out to Hunter College to ask if there was a way Sana could be remembered. Serena took it upon herself to follow through, contacting the college despite her own busy schedule juggling university and work. A few weeks ago, I thought about it again, wondering if the college might have forgotten or decided not to pursue anything. I didn’t bring it up — I didn’t want to add another burden to Serena, who already has so much on her plate. Quietly, I told myself it was okay either way. What I didn’t realize was that Serena had been persistently following up with Hunter College all along. Her love for Sana and her determination to honor her memory never wavered. Thanks to her efforts, the college sent this beautiful plaque, commemorating Sana not just as a student, but as someone who left a mark with her passion and dedication. As parents, this gesture touched a deep chord within us. It affirmed what we have always known — that Sana’s hard work, her heart, her struggles, and her achievements mattered. And that even in her absence, she continues to be seen, valued, and remembered. Sana, who used to worry about every grade, every paper, every project — today you are honored in a way that reflects not just your academic excellence but your beautiful soul. You are truly appreciated, now and always.